COACHING FOR MEN

Coming home to your embodied power, deep purpose & true potency

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WELCOME, BROTHER

This is a private, ongoing 1:1 coaching container for men who want to become solid, grounded, trustworthy, sexually present, and deeply connected to themselves and the women in their lives.

This is not performance coaching.
Nor is it just “techniques.”


This is the deep work of reclaiming your masculinity, healing the old patterns that keep you small, and learning to hold your sexual energy as fuel — not as anxiety, collapse, or compulsion.

I work with men in 3–6 month containers — allowing you to access your own depths and sustain the deep shifts you make during that period. This is transformative work for the man who’s ready to step into maturity, integrity and embodied masculine power.

🜁 The Work We Do

This is generative men’s work — meaning:

  • Identity work (the man you are → the man you are becoming)

  • Embodiment, presencing & nervous system work

  • Purifying and cultivating sexual energy

  • De-shaming your desire

  • Relational and intimacy skill-building

  • Shadow integration

  • Boundaries, clarity, truth-telling

  • Leadership & purpose from the core of your being

You will learn to feel more, hold more, and express more — without losing yourself. A space where you practice:

  • Staying centred in the midst of chaos, challenge, conflict and emotion

  • Integrating head, heart and sex so you can lead powerfully from wholeness and attunement

  • Release old identities, heal the wounds of shame and unworthiness, and take responsibility for your shadow

  • Move into the world as a solid, trustworthy, open-hearted man

👤 Who This Is For

Men who want to:

  • Feel grounded, confident, and embodied in their masculinity

  • Heal patterns around sex (shutdown, porn, performance, compulsions, anxiety)

  • Deepen intimacy with women — through presence, clarity, and emotional steadiness

  • Stop collapsing into old wounds, old stories, and old behaviours

  • Learn to hold more energy, more desire, more life

  • Build the inner strength to lead in love, work, and purpose

  • Become trustworthy — to themselves and to their partners

Whether you’re single, dating, partnered, or in transition, this work meets you where you are.

THE CORE FRAMEWORK

I guide people through 5 core phases in my work:

  1. STATE — The difference that makes the difference, re-connection to Self and nervous system regulation

  2. VISION — What is your north star, the life you would most love to live?

  3. IDENTITY — Who were you, who are you, who are you becoming? Reinventing & clarifying YOU.

  4. SKILLSET — What you need to move forwards with ease, peace and trust.

  5. MOVEMENT — Strategy to move into action from your truest, deepest place.

Most people experience huge shifts in the first stage, stages 2, 3, 4 & 5 are where life really starts to open.

YOUR UNIQUE JOURNEY

You are unique in your experience and the stage of your process. We may focus more on each of these areas depending on what is desired and required for your progress.

  • This is the foundation of the work. Your state determines your experience of reality and your impact in the world. How do you cultivate energy, regulate yourself, and show up as the most rested nervous system in the room?

    We develop:

    • Core stability, presence and safety

    • Embodiment - breath, trance, somatic awareness

    • Grounding practices for intensity and emotional integration tools.

  • Your relationship to your sexual–creative energy and nature influences your experience of power, clarity, confidence, leadership, and presence.

    We grow by:

    • Cultivating and channelling of sexual energy

    • Understanding your erotic blueprint.

    • Healing shame, fear, and negative childhood imprints.

    • Understanding and meeting your needs without being hijacked by them.

    • Integrating head, heart and sex consciousness into one aligned channel

    This is where potency becomes influence.

  • Together we look at:

    • Mother wound, father wound, and early relational imprints

    • Patterns that sabotage intimacy, purpose, or self-respect

    • Shadow behaviours that keep you small or split

    • The stories that no longer serve you

    And we clear a path toward a life lived with honour, integrity, and truth.

  • Learn how to show up as a leader in love, a man who brings depth, presence, and clarity into relationship.

    We explore:

    • Masculine & feminine dynamics

    • How to serve, hold, and dance with the feminine

    • Healthy boundaries

    • Repair, communication and intimacy skills

    • Dark & light eros

    • Archetypal energies: Lover, Warrior, Magician, King

    This work makes you a deeply potent lover, partner, and leader.

Simon, Chartered Surveyor

“Since starting to work with Alex I have felt greater access to myself leading to some deep shifts in my life.

The space he holds allows me to feel a deep sense of trust and safety where I can be vulnerable. I’ve learnt to move past shame, guilt and fear and now I can share openly, bringing more of myself into connection, I feel exhilarated.

I have gained some profound and powerful practices that I now use in my intimacy with women that have led to some incredible experiences and a sense of deep confidence in myself.”

Charles, Director of Investments

“I neglected my wounds around sexuality for a long time. This has totally changed how I feel and who I am on an identity level. My relationship with my wife and children has transformed for the better.”

George, Musician

“Trance took me deeper into myself than I’ve ever been. I didn’t even reach those places with plant medicines.”

THE PROGRAMME

A structure designed to create real, lasting change:

  • Powerful on-boarding process that creates clarity, direction & momentum

  • 3 x monthly 90-minute calls

  • Agreements and periodic reviews

  • Space for integration

  • Direct access to me via private messaging with bespoke, ongoing guidance & support

  • Detailed session summaries to track your growth

  • Accountability practices

METHODOLOGY

The tools I bring:

  • Deep trance work for healing, identity expansion, resourcing and overcoming blocks

  • Generative Sexuality practices

  • BTI (Brief Therapeutic Interventions) with state-of-the-art audios for self-practice

  • Nervous system regulation practices for inner safety and grounding

  • Intimacy practices (solo and partnered)

  • Embodied leadership tools

  • Fierce, playful, compassionate mentorship

IN ESSENCE

This work helps you:

  • Release addictions and stubborn patterns

  • Build deep self-trust, self-awareness & integrity

  • Clarify your identity and purpose

  • Reclaim your power

  • Transform your relationship to the feminine

  • Lead and live from the heart

  • Contain and channel more life force energy

  • Become a man rooted in his body, heart and soul — a man who lives and leads from wholeness, with presence, courage, & clarity

Application — Generative Men’s Work (1:1)

Presence | Sexuality | Integrity | Leadership

Thank you for your interest in this work. I only work with a few 1:1 clients each year. This form helps us both understand whether this is the right moment and the right container for you.